October 21, 2026
By Zoe Roth
Halloween is an exciting time for costumes, candy, and festive celebrations. But for some children, traditional Halloween activities can be challenging, from overwhelming sensory experiences to physical barriers that make participation difficult. With a few thoughtful adjustments, families and communities can help make Halloween a fun and welcoming experience for all children.

Create a Sensory-Friendly Environment
Bright lights, loud music, crowded spaces, and unexpected noises can overwhelm some children. Consider creating a quieter space where children can take a break from the excitement. Keeping music at a comfortable volume, offering a calm area away from crowds, and avoiding sudden loud noises can help children feel more comfortable. It is also helpful to let children know what to expect ahead of time. Sharing a schedule, pictures of the event space, or a simple description of planned activities can help children feel more prepared.
Make Costumes Comfortable and Optional
Costumes are a Halloween tradition, but not every child enjoys wearing them. Masks, face paint, scratchy fabrics, and restrictive clothing may be uncomfortable for some children. Let children choose what feels right for them, whether that means wearing a full costume, incorporating a small festive accessory into their everyday clothes, or skipping a costume altogether. For children who use mobility aids or other assistive devices, consider costumes that accommodate their equipment rather than interfere with its use. The goal is to let every child express themselves in a way that feels comfortable and fun.
Make Activities Accessible to Everyone
When planning games, crafts, or trick-or-treating, consider whether children with different mobility, communication, or developmental needs can take part.For example, organizers can provide wide, unobstructed pathways for wheelchairs and other mobility aids, place decorations and treats within reach, and offer alternatives to games that rely on speed or specific physical abilities. Offering different ways to participate lets children enjoy the celebration at their own pace.
Consider Halloween Treat Alternatives
Candy is a Halloween favorite, but food allergies, dietary restrictions, or preferences may make traditional treats unsuitable. Offering a variety of options, including non-food items such as stickers, small toys, or glow sticks, can help more children participate. When offering food, clearly communicate ingredients and potential allergens, and keep alternatives available without making children feel singled out. A little flexibility can help ensure that everyone has something to enjoy.
Respect Every Child’s Way of Participation
Every child communicates, interacts, and experiences Halloween differently. Some children may be excited to join every activity, while others may prefer to observe before participating or take breaks when they need them. Offering choices, demonstrating activities, and using visual cues can help children feel more comfortable and included. Remember that communication looks different for everyone. Some children may use gestures, communication devices, or other methods instead of speaking. Avoid requiring children to say “trick-or-treat” or “thank you” aloud, and give them time to respond without pressure.
Most importantly, let children celebrate in the ways that work best for them. Ask children and their caregivers what would help them feel included, and be flexible about how they participate. Inclusion isn’t about making every child participate the same way; it is about creating an environment where every child feels welcome.
Get Ready for St. Mary’s Monster Mash Event

At St. Mary’s Healthcare System for Children, creating opportunities for children of all abilities to connect, participate, and have fun is an important part of building a welcoming community. That’s why we’re excited for our upcoming Monster Mash on Sunday, October 25th! This special event brings children and families together to celebrate the magic of Halloween in a fun, inclusive, and supportive environment where every child can shine. We can’t wait for a day filled with costumes, laughter, and unforgettable memories! To learn more about this event, click here.


